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Someone help me fix this!! It is not medicalhe is hot and sexy and in shape!! Am i broken? if he really cares about you he will understand and try to
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In the beginning of a relationship, everything looks so peechy keen between both parties and it seems like the grass is always greener on the other side and most people that see a couple and might say Oh, you see that couple is perfect for each other where its almost so serene. Although, relationships are work and you have to make it work by communicating with one another because if theres no communication and trust, you have nothing at all. You have to trust one another all the way. Now, the worst thing to do is set off false accusations. Now, lets be truthful here no one wants to be with a nag and if you nag your mate about every little thing then thats just going to push your mate away to stray.
Know this: Let your man have his guys night out with his friends, and you ladies should have a ladies night out with your girlfriends. The same way a man has his male friends, a woman should have girlfriends too as well. And once the both of you get back together at the end of the day, everything should be great between both parties because you gave each other space to do what you both wanted to do.
VIP: You dont need anyone breathing down your back while youre handling business because it only complicates things. In order to remain sane, you both have to live your own lives and give each other some space and breathing room, by not being too demanding and overprotective. Give your partner a chance to miss you at the end of the day. You both have to come with compromising situations with an understanding. The mistakes that a lot of people make when in relationships are doing silly things to keep your mate, because you cant trap anyone to keep them. If your relationship isnt broken then dont try to fix it. Because thats where the problems begin and if youre living with someone and keys are given to you, you should not snoop around. If you snoop around, youll find out things that you dont want to find whether its in the past or the present. So, eventually in the end someone ends up getting hurt in the long run and thats where the problems start. By snooping around, youre not respecting your mates space that he or she has given you and by doing so youre also violating your mates privacy, ruining your chances of ever getting closer because of ones silly actions. Just like your mate has to maintain his sanity, you should be able to maintain your sanity as well. Women should not wear the pants all the time because you have to let a man be a man. Dont try to be little your mate because at the end of th day hes still a man. Respect one another!
Remember: Your mate is counting on you to not go through their things when theyre not home and reliability is a must for both parties. Its a two way street and you should both be financially set with a five year plan in order to build a unity together. Both parties should be independent, especially the ladies. You should be able to stand on your own two feet.Most men find it very sexy when a woman doesnt depend on them as much. The same rules apply for the guys! So in order to be independent and powerful you must have some type of education in order to bring as much to the table as your mate. You must be educationally compatible and on the same level with some moral support.
From a male perspective:
It is said It is said that you dont generally move in with a woman right away because you need to get to know a person first before anything because truthfully, a lot of people are out there wearing masks because remember when you first meet someone, youre not meeting the real thing, youre meeting their representative and moving in with someone is one step under marriage and some men say they rather live together first before marriage at least for a year. Some men get scared, fearing commitment. If you look at it, everything looks great on the outside. By finding out more and more about their mates and like the saying goes. You never know someone until you live with them. Sex is definitely a good sign and you must keep the spark and fire between the two of you in order to keep the passion and relationship alive where it doesnt become boring. Always re-invent your relationship without going outside any boundaries and its always good to listen twice as hard when one person speaks. You should always cater to your spouse whenevr you can and feeding your mates ego will always boost up their self esteem. But most importantly, you should build up a friendship before anything along with a support system for one another.
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Being friends before lovers is the best possible solution.
And last, But not least you must have patience and love!!!
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